Positive
Discipline
Positive Discipline is a discipline model used by schools
that focuses on the positive points of behaviour, based on the idea that there
are no bad children, just good and bad behaviors. You can teach and reinforce the
good behaviors while weaning the bad behaviors without hurting the child
verbally or physically. People engaging in positive discipline are not ignoring
problems. Rather, they are actively involved in helping their child learn how
to handle situations more appropriately while remaining calm, friendly and
respectful to the children themselves. Positive discipline includes a number of
different techniques that, used in combination, can lead to a more effective
way to manage groups of students. Some of these are listed below.
Positive discipline contrasts with negative
discipline. Negative
discipline may involve angry, destructive, or violent responses to
inappropriate behaviour. In the terms used by psychology research, positive
discipline uses the full range of reinforcement and punishment options:
·
Positive reinforcement, such as complimenting a
good effort;
·
Negative reinforcement, such as ignoring
requests made in a whining tone of voice;
·
Positive punishment, such as requiring a child
to clean up a mess he made; and
·
Negative punishment, such as removing a
privilege in response to poor behaviour.
However, unlike negative discipline, it does all of these things in a kind,
encouraging, and firm manner.
Five criteria
There are 5 criteria for effective positive discipline:
1.
Helps children
feel a sense of connection. (Belonging and significance)
2.
Is mutually
respectful and encouraging. (Kind and firm at the same time.)
3.
Is effective
long-term. (Considers what the child is thinking, feeling, learning, and
deciding about himself and his world – and what to do in the future to survive
or to thrive.)
4.
Teaches
important social and life skills. (Respect, concern for others, problem solving,
and cooperation as well as the skills to contribute to the home, school or
larger community.)
5.
Invites children
to discover how capable they are. (Encourages the constructive use of personal
power and autonomy.)[1]
Positive Behavior Support (PBS) is a
form of child discipline that is a proactive and positive approach used by staff,
parents and community agencies to promote successful behavior and learning at
home and at school for all students. PBS supports the acquisition of
replacement behaviors, a reduction of crisis intervention, the appreciation of
individual differences, strategies for self-control, and durable improvement in
the quality of life for all.
Preventive
measures
Part of using positive discipline is preventing
situations in which negative behaviors can arise. There are different
techniques that teachers can use to prevent bad behaviors:
Students who
"misbehave" are actually demonstrating "mistaken" behavior.
There are many reasons why a student may exhibit mistaken behavior, i.e. lack
of knowing appropriate behaviour to feeling unwanted or unaccepted. For
students who simply do not know what appropriate behaviour they should be
exhibiting, the teacher can teach the appropriate behavior. For example, the
young child who grabs toys from others can be stopped from grabbing a toy and
then shown how to ask for a turn. For students who are feeling unwanted or
unaccepted, a positive relationship needs to develop between the teacher and
student before ANY form of discipline will work.
The sanctions that are listed at
the end of the article would be less needed if students have a strong
connection with the adult in charge and knew that the teacher respected
him/her. Teachers need to know how to build these relationships. Simply telling
them to demonstrate respect and connection with students is not enough for some
of them, because they may also lack knowledge on how to do this.
Teachers need to view each child
as an account; they must deposit positive experiences in the student before
they make a withdraw from the child when discipline takes place. Teachers can
make deposits through praise, special activities, fun classroom jobs, smiles
and appropriate pats on the backs. Some children have never experienced
positive attention. Children long for attention; if they are not receiving
positive attention they will exhibit behavior that will elicit negative
attention.
Teachers can recognize groups of
students who would not work well together (because they are friends or do not
get along well) and have them separated from the start. Some teachers employ
the "boy-girl-boy-girl" method of lining or circling up (which may be
sexist or effective, depending on your perspective).
Another technique would be to be
explicit with the rules, and consequences for breaking those rules, from the
start. If students have a clear understanding of the rules, they will be more
compliant when there are consequences for their behaviors later on. A series of
3 warnings is sometimes used before a harsher consequence is used (detention, time-out,
etc.), especially for smaller annoyances (for example, a student can get
warnings for calling out, rather than getting an immediate detention, because a
warning is usually effective enough). Harsher consequences should come without
warnings for more egregious behaviors (hitting another student, cursing,
deliberately dissobeying a warning, etc.). Teachers can feel justified that
they have not "pulled a fast one" on students.
Using gerunds
Gerunds are words ending in "ing".
It is believed that using gerunds can help reinforce the positive behaviour
another would like to see rather than attacking a bad behaviour. For example, a
teacher might see students running down the hall and calmly say
"walking" rather than yell "stop running" in an agitated
voice. He might say "gently" (an adverb) instead of insisting
"calm down!"
Positive Recognition
(This addition is an example of "Behaviourism" and is not part of
the original Positive Discipline that does not advocate punishment or rewards.)
Positive discipline includes rewarding good behaviour as much as curtailing
negative behaviours. Some "rewards" can be verbal. Some are actual
gifts.
Instead of yelling at a student displaying negative behaviours, a
teacher/leader might recognize a student behaving well with a "thank you
Billy for joining the line", or "I like the way you helped Billy find
his notebook." Recognizing a positive behaviour can bring a group's focus
away from the students displaying negative behaviour, who might just be
"acting out" for attention. Seeing this, students seeking attention
might try displaying good behaviours to get the recognition of the leader.
One person’s submits this as a reward method: Students are given stamps in
their planner if they do well in a lesson. When they receive enough stamps from
the same subject (usually 3 or 5) the student has a credit. When
50, 100, 150, 200 and 250 credits have been awarded to a particular student,
that student receives a certificate. If a student meets certain behavioural
criteria, they are rewarded with a trip at the end of term.
Other rewards:
·
A special chain
or necklace students pass from one to another for doing good deeds.
·
High fives and
positive words.
·
Awards/achievements
on the wall of the classroom or cafeteria.
Benefits
Better student-teacher relations. Less teacher wasted
energy/frustration. Students recognize desirable positive behaviors, rather
than feel attacked.
Statistics show that each year,
close to one third of eighteen-year-olds do not finish high school (Bridgeland,
2006; Dilulio, 2006; Morison, 2006). Minority and low-income areas show even
higher numbers. 75 percent of crimes committed in the United States are done by
high school drop-outs. In order to know how to intervene Civic Enterprises
interviewed dropouts and asked them what they suggest be done to increase high
school completion numbers. Here is what they came up with: 81% said there
should be more opportunities for "real-world" learning, 81% said
"better" teachers, 75% said smaller class numbers, 70% said
"increasing supervision in schools", 70% said greater opportunities
for summer school and after-school programs, 62% said "more classroom
discipline, and 41% said to have someone available to talk about personal
problems with (Bridgeland, 2006; Dilulio, 2006; Morison, 2006). Through use of
Positive Discipline, efforts are being made to prevent occurrences such as dropping
out of school.










